Transsexual and Transgenders

I have assessed and observed a Transsexual and it has to be tough in their work environment and social relationships from my standpoint. I worked in the same department part-time evenings with a Transsexual named ‘B.’ Prior to mine and others public introduction to ‘B’ transformation to a Transsexual, we perceived him as a feminine male. He used the men’s restroom like the other men. Then suddenly we notice small breast, we gossip that he was taking hormonal shots. But he continued using the men’s restroom. Then one day he came in to work dressed as a woman; and begun using the women’s restroom. The women objected and complained to upper management. Management informed ‘B’ by memo that he could only use the men’s restroom. ‘‘B’ at that time had male organs. So technically even though ‘B’ had breast and wore women’s pants and functioned like a women he was still a man. B’ refused to use the men’s restroom and waited to the end of his shift to use his bathroom at home. ‘B’ spoke softly like a women, wore a women’s hairstyle, clothing, shoes, painted nails and jewelry. During our two fifteen minute breaks, B’ would not move too far from his desk. He would just sit, talk, and always seem to appear sitting with a stiff straight back, as on guard and somewhat uncomfortable. A few female co-workers would tell him their personal business and issues with their mates. How weird. They did not want to share a public restroom, but it was ok to seek advice or complain about their spouses as if he had the answers.